Week 2: Saying “No” the Healthy Way 健康地說不

Time: 3 minute video
Category: People Leadership 團隊領導

In a cancer center, leaders get requests all day: “Can we skip this step?” “Can you add one more task?” “Can we make an exception?” Saying “yes” can feel supportive, but over time, too many yeses can quietly damage safety, fairness, and workload. This week’s tool is simple: AAA (Acknowledge, Answer, Alternative). Take 2 minutes to fill out the Google Form so we can learn as one leadership team. Make sure to spend 2 minutes filling out the Google Form so we can help each other build good leadership habits.

在癌症中心,主管每天都會收到各種請求:「這一步可以先省略嗎?」「可以再多加一件事嗎?」「可以破例一次嗎?」說「好」看起來很支持,但長期下來,太多的「好」可能會悄悄傷害病人安全、公平性與工作負荷。這週的工具很簡單:AAA 三步法(同理 、明確回覆 、替代方案 )。請你花 2 分鐘填寫 Google 表單,讓我們能彼此支持,一起建立良好的領導習慣。

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Summary of Video

Why does this matter for leaders at KFSYSCC?

At KFSYSCC, being supportive is not only about saying yes. It is about protecting the conditions that keep care safe and teams stable. A clear, kind ”no” helps leaders defend patient safety, prevent unfair exceptions, and reduce burnout by keeping priorities realistic.

When would you use this?

Use AAA when:

  • Someone asks to skip or bend a safety step “just this once.”

  • A last-minute request conflicts with patient care or core priorities.

  • You are asked to attend a non-urgent meeting but your schedule is already full.

  • A request would create an unfair exception or set an unsustainable precedent.

  • You want to say no without sounding cold, vague, or avoidant.


What are the key phrases from this video?

AAA: Acknowledge, Answer, Alternative.
Warm tone, clear boundary.
I can’t approve that.
Here’s what I can do instead.
Let’s protect safety and fix the process.

How would you describe this tool in 30 seconds?

AAA is a simple way to say no without damaging trust:

Acknowledge the person’s reality, Answer with a clear decision, then offer an Alternative next step. It keeps standards firm and relationships respectful.

影片摘要

為什麼這對和信醫院的領導者很重要?

在和信醫院,「支持同仁」不等於什麼都答應。真正的支持,是守住病人安全、公平與可長可久的工作負荷。一個清楚又溫暖的「不」,能幫主管守住標準,也保護團隊不被過度消耗。

什麼時候會用到這個工具?

當你遇到以下情況,就很適合用 AAA:

• 有人想「先省略」安全步驟或流程。

• 臨時加進來的任務,會衝突到核心優先順序。

• 被邀請參加非急迫會議,但行程已滿。

• 這個請求會造成不公平的例外,或形成不健康的慣例。

• 你想說不,但不想冷淡、模糊或逃避。


這支影片的關鍵句是什麼?

AAA 三步法:同理、明確回覆、替代方案。
語氣溫和,界線清楚。
這件事我不能核准。
我可以提供的替代方案是……
守住安全,同時改善流程。

用 30 秒怎麼描述這個工具?

AAA 是一個「不傷信任的說不法」:先同理對方,再清楚說出決定,最後給替代方案或下一步。標準不退讓,關係也能被保護。

Scripts for Leaders

Scripts make it easier to turn ideas into action. Watching a video can inspire you, but real leadership change usually happens in short, high-pressure moments where it’s hard to find the right words. The scripts give you ready-to-use phrases and structures you can adapt to your style, so you can try the skill immediately, stay consistent across teams, and spend less time figuring out what to say and more time leading well.

給主管的對話腳本

對話腳本能讓想法更容易轉化為行動。看完影片可能會受到啟發,但真正的領導力改變,往往發生在短暫、壓力很高的當下,而那時最難的是立刻找到合適的說法。這些腳本提供你可立即使用的句型與結構,你可以依照自己的風格調整,讓你能馬上練習這項技能、在不同團隊之間保持一致,也把更多時間用在好好帶領團隊,而不是苦想該怎麼說。

Supporting Research

支持性研究

Bonus Clips
加碼影片

If you want a quick outside perspective, here are three videos that reinforce this week’s lesson: saying “no” is a practical leadership skill you can build through learning and practice.

如果你想快速聽聽外部觀點,以下三支影片會呼應本週課程的重點:說「不」是一項實用的領導力技能,可以透過學習與練習逐步建立。

Recommended Books 推薦書單

References

  1. Demerouti et al. (2001). The job demands-resources model of burnout.

  2. National Academy of Medicine (2019). Taking Action Against Clinician Burnout: A Systems Approach to Professional Well-Being (summary).

  3. Westbrook et al. (2010). Association of interruptions with an increased risk and severity of medication administration errors.

  4. Haynes et al. (2009). A surgical safety checklist to reduce morbidity and mortality in a global population.

  5. WHO (2010). Checklist helps reduce surgical complications, deaths.

  6. American Hospital Association (Team Training). Improving Patient Safety Culture through Teamwork and Communication: TeamSTEPPS®.

  7. TeamSTEPPS Supplemental Guide (Rev Oct 2022). Mutual support, task assistance, workload protection, assertive tools.

  8. Edmondson (1999). Psychological Safety and Learning Behavior in Work Teams.

  9. Colquitt et al. (2001). Justice at the Millennium: A meta-analytic review of organizational justice research.

  10. Chen et al. (2023). Assertive communication training for nurses to speak up in cases of medical errors: A systematic review and meta-analysis.

  11. Omura et al. (2017). Effectiveness of assertiveness communication training programs for healthcare professionals and students: A systematic review.

  12. Langer, Blank & Chanowitz (1978). The Mindlessness of Ostensibly Thoughtful Action: The role of “placebic” information in interpersonal interaction.

  13. Grenny (2019). How to Say “No” at Work Without Making Enemies.

  14. Ury (book resource). The Power of a Positive No (Program on Negotiation, Harvard Law School).